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Here’s How to Build a Stronger Team Culture

February 25, 2016 by

By Stephanie Zonars, Life Beyond Sport

Every coach I meet wants to make a difference in the lives of others. But not every coach maximizes that opportunity.

Every coach I meet takes time to define team and perhaps, personal goals. But not every coach invests time in defining his/her purpose.

There’s a big difference between goals and purpose.

Goals: shorter in duration; focused on the “what”; task-oriented; measurable

Purpose: spans longer time frame; focused on the “why”; relationship-driven; largely immeasurable

On the long highway of life, goals are the signposts and purpose is the road itself. As you move through your career, you will achieve goals. But if your identity is tied only to performance goals, you’ll always be looking backwards to find validation.

It’s why some pro athletes come out of retirement and why coaches oftentimes feel lost at the end of their careers—they don’t know their purpose apart from achieving performance goals.

But knowing your purpose—why you coach—sustains you for the whole journey. —Tweet that!

You will achieve lots of goals along the way, but your validation will come from your underlying purpose, not the goals themselves.

I can’t overstate the importance of taking the time to explore and understand your purpose as a coach or leader. The biggest reason people don’t?

Because they can’t figure it all out in an hour at Starbucks.

It takes time.

It requires slowing your pace and creating space in your brain so you can think.

It means asking yourself some tough, and sometimes uncomfortable, questions.

But here’s why it’s crucial:

If you’re a head coach, your team culture starts with you. It’s a reflection of you. And the more clarity you have about who you are and why you coach, the more clear you’ll be about the kind of culture you seek to create.

If you’re an assistant coach, you’re looking for a head coach and team culture that fits you. Nothing is more miserable than working for someone whose core purpose diametrically opposes yours. But you can’t determine what a good fit looks like if you don’t know who you are and why you coach.

Randy Hatch and Patrick Steele know why they coach the Lady Jags at Carroll Academy—to teach life skills.  Their team provides refuge, family and hope to girls who’ve experienced very little of those things in their lives.

Winning is not the main objective for Coach Hatch and Coach Steele—the Lady Jags have won 6 games in 14 years. But the record isn’t the most important thing to these coaches and players (just listen to the girls’ emotion in this ESPN video).

What matters? That they are a family. That the players learn responsibility, discipline and a whole list of other lessons.

Success to them is a team full of girls who are doing their schoolwork and not drugs.

“The losses give us the tools that we need to teach, to build self-esteem and courage.”

—Patrick Steele

These coaches are ultra clear on their purpose and fulfilling it fuels their satisfaction.

You may be familiar with Joe Ehrmann and his book InsideOut Coaching. He asks 4 poignant questions that will help get your brain working around this concept of your purpose.

If you’re serious about creating a culture where your staff and players thrive, schedule time to write down your answers to these questions. If you’ve answered them before, revisit your answers and evaluate your current season to see if they still hold true.

Why do I coach?

Why do I coach the way that I do?

What does it feel like to be coached by me?

What do I want to accomplish by my coaching?

If you’re not a coach, just replace that word with “lead.”

These questions will surface some concepts and words that will help you get closer to articulating your purpose—one of the most important steps in creating the best culture for your team.

Here’s a Method That Helps Coaches Build Stronger Team Culture appeared first on LifeBeyondSport.

About Stephanie Zonars

  • Certified Real Colors® team building facilitator
  • Author of Wisdom for the BusyCoach (2011), Leader of the Pack: The Legacy of Legendary Coach Kay Yow (2009) and Timeout: Moments with God for Winning in Life (2008)
  • Certified Life Coach through the ICF accredited Institute for Life Coach Training
  • Certified Leading From Your Strengths assessment practitioner
  • Presenter at Women’s Basketball Coaches Association (WBCA) Convention (2009—2014).
  • Presenter at American Volleyball Coaches Association (AVCA) Convention (2011, 2012)
  • Panelist at National Soccer Coaches Association seminar (2010)
  • Facilities Chair & Keynote Speaker, 2012 Rae Burick Women in Sports Award Celebration
  • Member: Women’s Basketball Coaches Association
  • Fifteen years coaching/directing sport tours with Athletes in Action
  • Thirty years experience in sport as an athlete, coach and administrator

Filed Under: Program Building

A Different Voice

February 23, 2016 by

Submitted by by Cory Dobbs, Ed.D., The Academy for Sport Leadership

As a coach I always considered it a privilege to participate in the growth and development of student-athletes.  Today I find myself in the unique role of trying to help student-athletes become better team leaders and thereby prepare for the leadership challenges of life.  If you were to take part in one of my workshops you’d notice very quickly that I try to get student-athletes to unlock their voice—that is to learn how to solve leadership problems through discussion and dialogue.  The voice of a student-athlete holds incredible potential to create, shape, and influence one’s self-concept and interpersonal relationships.

This article aims to give voice to a young student-athlete who cares enough to do his homework.  Concerned with what he was observing from the sideline, Jake Young, a high school student-athlete, crafted a research project to explore and describe the positive and negative effects coaches can have on athletes.

Whether or not you agree with Jake’s findings is not the point, this is simply an opportunity to hear the voice of a young athlete willing to invest time and energy in crafting a point-of-view.  As a student, Jake has taken sufficient steps to better understand his world.  As an athlete, he is challenging coaching methods with his research and my hope is that the insights resulting from his efforts will be appreciated.  –Cory Dobbs, Ed.D., The Academy for Sport Leadership

Site Editor’s Note from Brian.  I believe that as coaches, we can have high expectations, push and challenge athletes, hold athletes accountable, confront when necessary, and be intense, without being verbally abusive.  In short, we can have discipline and be demanding without being demeaning (Don Meyer).  It is also my opinion that coaching respectfully does not always mean that you will win a championship, but that it will help them to come nearer to reaching their potential.  And, more importantly, have a rewarding experience in many other ways.


A Different Voice
Respectful Coaching and the Respected Coach
by Jake Young, Student-Athlete

Throughout my life I have been very fortunate to experience many different coaches through my participation in sports and my brother’s too. These experiences include track and field, golf, power lifting, baseball, and football.  My brother has had the opportunity to play for some of the greatest select baseball programs in Texas, many with a reputation for winning. However, both of us have also had the opportunity to play on teams that were not as successful and lacked a successful reputation. Through these experiences of watching and participating in sports I have noticed that the coaching techniques of the coach have a direct positive or negative effect on their athletes.

In these relationships I began to notice a trend; the higher the respect for the coach the greater the team’s performance and success. As I began to focus even more on this relationship I noticed the coaches that were more respected by their athletes seemed to use different coaching techniques than the coaches who were not respected.

I believe that some coaches feel that they have to be rough and tough to be respected by their athletes and to have a successful team. It is a kind of mentality that may be referred to as “hard-nosed” or in a sense “old-school” type coaching. My beliefs about becoming a successful program do not include “old-school” coaching, even though this still may be viewed as a respectable coaching technique. I believe that coaches need to be respected by their players to be successful in any sport.
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One coaching technique that I believed caused the athlete’s respect for their coach to decrease was verbal aggression, which is defined as a verbal message sent to hurt the receiver. The reason for my choice of focusing on coaches’ verbal aggression is because of a personal experience as a brother. I watched my brother play baseball for at least eight years where he participated in select, high school, and collegiate leagues. Throughout all of these seasons he had coaches that fell into three different types of verbal aggressive categories: not verbally aggressive, somewhat verbally aggressive, and extremely verbal aggressive.

I mention these categories to show the relationships between the coach’s verbal aggression and the team’s success, the respect for the coach, and my brother’s motivation to play.

The teams he played on where the coaches were partially verbally aggressive, the players respected their coach but were not as successful as they could have been. In these seasons my brother’s motivation to play was somewhat skewed, although the drive to play in college kept him motivated.

The team where the coach was extremely verbally aggressive, there was no respect for the coach and the success of the team was far from where they would like it. In addition, on this team my brother’s motivation to play the sport was depleted.

The team in which the coach was not verbally aggressive the players all respected the coach and the team won the national championship and became ranked number one in the nation. In addition, on this team my brother’s motivation to play the sport was at its highest. I believed that the reason for the difference of respect, success, and my brother’s motivation to play had a great deal to do with the differences in the coaches’ verbal aggression on all of these teams.

This past year I have done a great deal of research in the field of sports psychology. Through the process of researching I began to focus on the coach-player relationship and more in-depth, coach’s verbal aggression, defined earlier as a verbal message sent to hurt the receiver.

I then conducted a study with my offseason program consisting of athletes who play football, basketball, track and field, and baseball. The study investigated the relationship of the athlete’s perception of the coach’s verbal aggression and its affect on the athlete’s motivation and attitude toward their coach. My hypotheses in the research were both null stating that there would be no relationship between the coach’s use of verbal aggression on the athlete’s motivation and attitude toward the coach, and there would be no relationship between the athlete’s motivation and attitude toward the coach.

I used three different surveys/scales to measure the coach’s verbal aggression, motivation of the player, and attitude of the athlete toward the coach. The surveys are listed respectively: Verbal Aggressiveness Scale (Infante & Wigley 1986, Martin 2009), Sport Motivation Scale – 6 (Mallet 2007), and a seven point Likert scale that asked the question: My overall attitude toward my coach is….

The Verbal Aggressiveness Scale measured the athlete’s average perception of the coach’s verbal aggression. The Sport Motivation Scale – 6 measures the athlete’s motivation to play the sport broken down into six types of motivations: Amotivation, Introjected Regulation, Integrated Regulation, External Regulation, Identified Regulation, and Intrinsic Motivation. The seven point Likert scale that asked the question “My overall attitude toward my coach…” measured the athlete’s attitude toward their coach using four seven point differentials: Good – Bad, Positive – Negative, Valuable – Worthless, Fair – Unfair.

As I mentioned earlier I asked team members from my offseason sport program to participate in the study. I handed out about fifty envelopes of surveys and received back thirty three. With the data that I analyzed I discovered three significant relationships. There was a positive relationship between the coach’s use of verbal aggression on the athlete’s amotivation (unwillingness to play the sport), which means that the higher the player perceives their coach to be verbally aggressive the more they do not want to participate in the sport.

The second relationship was a negative relationship between the coach’s use of verbal aggression on the athlete’s attitude toward their coach, which means the higher the player perceives their coach to be verbally aggressive the lower their attitude toward their coach(Attitude of bad, negative, worthless, and unfair).

The final relationship was a negative relationship between the player’s amotivation and the player’s attitude toward their coach. This relationship shows that the higher the player’s attitude toward their coach the lower their amotivation (unwillingness to play sport), which suggests that the lower the athlete’s attitude (bad, negative, worthless, and unfair) the more they do not want to play the sport.

This research has helped me learn how a coach can affect his athletes with the negative coaching technique of verbal aggression. Coaches use verbal aggression at many different times and in many different ways; whether it is to intentionally hurt the player or whether the coach does not realize what he is saying. The research that I have conducted has shown me that verbal aggression truly does have an effect on an athlete. I believe if coaches could realize this fact and adjust their coaching techniques to stop their verbal aggression, their athletes’ amotivation (unwillingness to play the sport) would decrease and their athlete’s attitude toward them (the coach) would increase.

Name: Jake Young             Status: Junior at Cameron Yoe High School, Texas
Possible College Major: Sports Psychology Project Title: Relationship Between the Coaches Use of Verbal Aggression on the Motivation and Affect on the Player
Project Results: The project placed first in its category of Behavioral Sciences at the Central Texas Science and Engineering Fair and third overall for all categories.  The project also won an award from the Naval Research Association at the State Texas Science and Engineering fair.

 

To find out more about and order Sport Leadership Books authored by Dr. Dobbs including Coaching for Leadership, click this link: The Academy for Sport Leadership Books

About the Author

A former basketball coach, Cory’s coaching background includes experience at the NCAA DII, NJCAA, and high school levels of competition. While coaching, he researched and developed the transformative Becoming a Team Leader program for student-athletes. Cory has worked with professional athletes, collegiate athletic programs and high schools teaching leadership as a part of the sports experience and education process. Cory cut his teeth as a corporate leader with Fortune 500 member, The Dial Corp. As a consultant and trainer Dr. Dobbs has worked with such organizations as American Express, Honeywell, and Avnet.

Cory has taught a variety of courses on leadership and change for the following universities:

Northern Arizona University (Graduate Schools of Business and Education)

Ohio University (Graduate School of Education / Management and Leadership in Sport)

Grand Canyon University (Sports Marketing and Sports Management in the Colangelo School of Sports Business)


Filed Under: Leadership

I’d Rather See a Sermon

February 17, 2016 by

Edgar A. Guest

I’d rather see a sermon than to hear one any day;
I’d rather one should walk with me than merely show the way.
The eye’s a better pupil and more willing than the ear;
Fine counsel is confusing, but examples are always clear.

And, best of all the preachers are the men who live their creeds;
For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.
I soon can learn to do it, if you’ll let me see it done;
I can see your hands in action, but your tongue too fast may run.
And the lectures you deliver may be very fine and true,
But I’d rather get my lesson by observing what you do;
For I may misunder­stand you and the high advice you give;
But there’s no misunderstanding how you act and how you live!


Filed Under: Motivation

Winning is Giving

February 17, 2016 by

Winning is giving your best self away
Winning is serving with grace every day
You’ll know that you’ve won when your friends say it’s true.
“I like who I am when I’m around you.
You look for the best in the others you see
And you help us become who we’re trying to be.”

Winning is helping someone who’s down
It’s sharing a smile instead of a frown.

It’s giving your children a hug by the fire
And sharing the values and dreams that inspire.

It’s giving your parents the message “I care.
Thanks, Mom and Dad, for being so fair.”

Winners are willing to give more than get
Their favors are free, you’re never in debt.

Winning is giving one hundred percent
It’s paying your dues, your taxes, your rent
It’s trying and doing, not crying and stewing.

Winners respect every color and creed,
They share and they care for everyone’s need.

The losers keep betting that winning is getting
But there’s one law that they keep forgetting
And this is the Law you can live and believe
The more that you give, the more you’ll receive!


Filed Under: Motivation

Ambition & The Person who Quits

February 17, 2016 by

Here are a couple of inspirational poems that you might consider using in your team notebooks. They are obviously written in the masculine gender, but in my opinion, apply to all athletes!

Ambition

You are the fellow who has to decide
Whether you’ll do it or toss it aside.
You are the fellow who makes up your mind
Whether you’ll lead or linger behind
­Whether you’ll try for the goal that’s afar
Or be contented to stay where you are.
Take it or leave it; here’s something to do,
Just think it over; it’s all up to you!
What do you wish? To be known as a shirk,
Known as a good man who’s willing to work,
Scorned for a loafer or praised by your chief,
Rich man or poor man or beggar or thief?
Eager or earnest or dull through the day,
Honest or crooked? It’s you who must say!
Whether you’ll shirk it or give it your best.

The Man Who Quits

The man who quits has a brain and a hand
As good as the next, but lacks the sand
That would make him stick, with a courage stout,
To whatever he tackles, and fight it out.

He starts with a rush, and a solemn vow
That he’ll soon be showing the others how;
Then something new strikes his roving eye,
And his task is left for the bye – and – bye.

It’s up to each man what becomes of him;
He must find himself the grit and vim
That brings success; he can get the skill,
If he brings to the task a steadfast will.

No man is beaten till he gives in;
Hard luck can’t stand for a cheerful grin;
The man who fails needs a better excuse,
Than the quitter’s whining, “What’s the use?”

For the man who quits lets his chance slip,
Just because he’s too lazy to keep his grip.
The man who sticks goes ahead with a shout,
While the man who quits joins the “Down and out.”


Filed Under: Motivation

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