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Teaching Leadership to your Staff

December 29, 2016 by

This article was provided by Athletic Management

Along with knowing their X’s and O’s, coaches today have to be effective leaders. While some easily rise to the challenge, others will need mentoring.
By Dan Cardone

Dan Cardone is Athletic Director at North Hills High School in Pittsburgh, Pa., and a frequent contributor to Athletic Management and www.AthleticManagement.com. He can be reached at: [email protected].

Whenever a new coach is brought into an athletic program, there are always some knowns and some unknowns. We’ll have a general idea of the person’s strengths and weaknesses. And we’ll be confident he or she is a good fit for the school.

But what is not always easy to know is how the person will develop as a leader. Will he or she become recognized as a motivating force behind the squad? Will he or she be able to inspire student-athletes? Will he or she get along with other coaches and communicate well with parents?

Today, it’s critical for coaches to be leaders, and the athletic director must take time to mentor his or her staff on how to do so. More than likely, a new coach arrives with a good grasp on the fundamentals of the sport and understands how to impart them to the participants. But these qualities do little to prepare someone to be the leader of a group of athletes, a coaching staff, and parents.

WHY SO IMPORTANT?
What is the difference between a coach who has strong leadership skills and one who does not? To start, a leader can motivate the staff and players toward a defined goal. He or she can assess what a team needs beyond the X’s and O’s, and then push the group toward achieving those intangibles. A leader sets high expectations, and then challenges everyone else around them to reach higher than they thought possible. That, of course, is what ultimately teaches student-athletes the lessons they take with them long after they graduate.

For many young people, coaches are the biggest influence in their life. They listen to their coaches before their teachers and maybe even their parents. When I was coaching, some parents would even say, “My son will not listen to me, and you are the only one he will listen to. Can you help me?”

Great coaches possess the ability to create new leaders out of their athletes. They understand the powerful impact leadership can have on team dynamics and work hard to bring it to the forefront. They find those athletes with leadership potential and mentor them.

Jenn Gustin, a highly successful Head Girls’ Lacrosse Coach at Franklin Regional High School in Pittsburgh, is a strong believer in using open communication to bring out her athletes’ leadership potential. “I try to provide the opportunity for all team members to be leaders by letting them know that I welcome their input,” she explains. “I do not always implement their suggestions, but I always let them be heard for discussion.”

There are other, more subtle, forms of leadership a coach needs in their arsenal. Knowing how to work with parents is a big one. Coaches today must walk a fine line of being confident while showing compassion. In addition, they have to get parents to buy into what they are preaching. All this takes very solid leadership know-how.

A head coach must also be very conscious of how to best mentor his or her assistant coaches. Say an assistant coach is not happy with having to coach the junior varsity squad. The head coach may have to give the assistant coach a pep talk: “I know if you are in charge, the team is in good hands.” Or “I cannot send just anyone to coach that team. This is the only chance these kids have of playing, and they will play for you.”

What may be most important is that a coach who is a leader can see problems before they become crises. They are able to assess what needs to be done and take prompt action to right the ship. They take care of turbulence before it becomes a storm that blows into the athletic director’s office.

MENTORING COACHES
If we want our coaches to possess leadership capabilities, we need to teach them. For many young coaches, it does not happen automatically. They need guidance and direction.

Here at North Hills High School, I start by imparting to the coaches the benchmarks that have been established over time. I tell them, “I did not set the high standards we have here. They were here when I arrived. I have realized that this community values hard work and effort–I have seen them give a standing ovation to both teams at the end of a football game we lost–and I have tried to make that part of our program at every level. There is an expectation that coaches will be program leaders and uphold a tradition of excellence.”

We talk a lot here about our pioneer coaches. They were not great leaders simply because they won. They demonstrated they were a cut above the rest because they won with class. They held great respect for the game and felt it was a privilege to coach. I make sure new coaches understand this history so they can emulate their predecessors.

Then, I mentor coaches on leadership in every way I can. One key area we talk about is decision making. I give them ideas for how to make sound decisions and tell them to always communicate up: “Keeping your superiors informed of a situation keeps them in the game. Working to find every viewpoint from those whose opinions you value brings clarity to a tough call.”

What I have discovered is that it often comes down to simply being supportive when coaches have to make tough decisions. Taking the time to listen to them, encourage their decision-making process, and praise them is sometimes all it takes. Having someone tell them they are making the right decision gives them the confidence to continue to make good choices.

I also try to provide them feedback on a daily basis. I constantly remind our new coaches of who we are and who we want them to become. And I offer instant positive reinforcement–even on small things. For example, I may say to a coach, “I like the way you addressed the unsportsmanslike conduct penalty your player received by pulling him from the game. You sent a great message that this is something you will not tolerate in your program.”

After a tough loss, I might listen in as the coach addresses the team. If I feel he or she did not come off as a leader in this situation, I will offer some tips for next time. I’ll give the coach some suggestions on what to say, such as, “Hey we all fell short tonight, including me. I feel I could have prepared you better as the leader of this team, and I promise that will happen next week.”

Another key to mentoring coaches is helping them bring out leadership in their own players. I ask coaches to identify student-athletes with leadership potential, then give them tips on how to engage these individuals in school away from their peers. I’ll suggest they call a player into the athletic offices during the school day and talk to them about the mental state of the team.

I encourage coaches to also identify the player on the fence–one who has potential but hangs delicately between choosing the wrong kids over the right ones in their social circles. I even offer my own help with these players. “Would it help if I spoke to them? I have a leadership opportunity coming up, would asking them to participate be a good idea?”

Along with continual feedback, annual coaches evaluations are a great time to talk about leadership. We have language in our rubric that points to head coaches being responsible for their entire program, grades 7-12. We evaluate them on how well they provide direction to the lower-level coaches and oversee the leadership aspects of the program.

The rubric also includes a line that reads “takes advantage of opportunities for professional growth.” If a coach has not started to do this in terms of furthering leadership, I will offer suggestions. For example, there is an American Sport Education Program (ASEP) course that provides leadership training, which I will point them to.

If a coach is struggling with certain leadership skills, we’ll discuss the problem thoroughly. Sometimes, we may need to come up with a new solution that works for that particular coach. For example, if he or she continues to do poorly with administrative duties, I might say, “You are at the top of the list among all of our head coaches when it comes to handling discipline, but when it comes to things such as turning in your eligibility sheet, ordering busses, and providing information to the office, you are dead last. Why not turn those duties over to your assistant coach? We do not care who does the paperwork, and if you need to delegate it to make that happen, then so be it.”

Another idea we use is to pair a new coach with a veteran coach preferably in a similar sport such as boys’ and girls’ basketball. I’ll tell the new coach, “If you have a problem, stop in before your practice and talk to the girls’ basketball coach. She can help you strategize about how to handle a variety of issues.”

SITUATIONAL LEADERSHIP
One more avenue I’ve used to get coaches thinking about leadership is a preseason coaches course I developed. Included in the course is a PowerPoint presentation entitled “Coaches and Leadership.” It talks a lot about situational leadership–how a coach acts day-to-day–and why this can either further or diminish others’ perceptions of them.

To me, situational leadership is being able to foresee a potential conflict and bring it to a positive resolution before anyone else notices the problem. For example, do you start all the seniors on senior night, or do you go with the same lineup you have used throughout the season?

In the course, several examples of this type of day-to-day leadership are brought up. The goal is to get coaches thinking about scenarios and how to act in tricky situations. Some of the topics we cover include:

When a parent doesn’t agree with your coaching decisions: I believe that strong communications can ease relations with parents on many topics. When there are differences in opinion over things such as playing time, not being the “featured” running back or point guard, or why their child was not an all-conference selection, up-front discussion can solve many problems. The way to counter those differing opinions is to:

• Make “team over individual” part of your lingo. When the team is always more important than individual accomplishments, parents better understand the big picture.

• Have a high level of care for parental concerns. Instead of brushing a parent’s concerns aside, talk with them and make them feel good about their parenting. I used to say to parents, “I appreciate the fact you care a great deal about your child. A lot of parents do not.”

• Provide details on how things work. Explain that the all-conference team is chosen by a consensus of coaches in the conference, and not by the school’s coaches.

The process of tryouts: The way a coach runs tryouts can set the tone for an entire season, which is why it’s critical to think through the process thoroughly. We want parents and athletes impressed by the coaching style they see from the very start.

We ask coaches to explain tryouts in a meeting prior to their start. The key thing to get across is that coaches are taking their decisions very seriously with the best intentions in mind.

For example, coaches can say, “We are going to have a three- to five-day tryout, and we are going to select anywhere from 15 to 18 players to be on the squad.” This is very different than drawing lines such as, “We are taking 15 kids, and it will be done over a three-day period.” The message becomes, “This is going to be a difficult process, and we want to give it its due.”

I strongly encourage our coaches to meet with those athletes who do not make the team. They can thank them for having the courage to try out and encourage them to come out again next year. They can sometimes also offer alternatives, such as becoming a team manager who gets to practice with the team each day. Pulling kids in versus turning them away is a sign that the coach wants to be a leader and program builder.

Handling a tough situation: How will you handle a parent confronting you after a contest about why their child did not get in the game? This is a matter of choosing what I call fight or flight. I tell coaches that the parent wants a public confrontation, and it is a no-win situation. We encourage the coaches to impart to parents in the initial meeting that there will be a 24-hour rule. This provides a “cooling down period” and makes an attempt at getting the emotions out and pulling reason in.

Ethics in leadership: Ethics should have a strong presence in the leadership component, and I ask coaches to think deeply about the right and wrong of every decision. Recruiting student-athletes to join your school because you lost your starting quarterback is not ethical behavior. I do not understand how coaches can sell the youth programs on growing up to be part of their community team, then encourage a player to move into the district and take a starting spot away from a hard-working senior.

How to inspire athletes: I believe that you have to first inspire yourself before you can inspire others. If you are not motivated, how can you possibly convince others to get on board?

I often offer the story of Oscar Pistorius, born in South Africa in 1986 with no fibulas. This double amputee is the world record holder and a Paralympics runner in the 100, 200, and 400 meters, and he wanted to compete in the 2008 Olympics. The International Association of Athletics Federations first banned him for having an unfair advantage over those he competed against. This was eventually overruled, and Pistorius was declared eligible for the games that year in China, although he narrowly missed qualifying. This was a man who never looked back because he had a sense of urgency and an extreme desire to succeed. What if we all approached each day the same way? Great leaders find inspiration for themselves and pass the inspiration on to others.

SEIZING THE REINS
Developing coaches into leaders is crucial for any effective athletic department. Each head coach needs realize that the success of their team is directly related to their leadership capability. Each head coach must seize the reins of their team.

Napoleon Bonaparte said, “A leader is a dealer in hope.” How appropriate a quotation for coaches, who must sell athletes on their need to focus on a common goal every time they set foot on the field. They need to convince the players that the harder they work, the more success they will have.

And, every day, the head coach has to convince him or herself that the countless hours of preparation will translate into something worthwhile. The wonderful thing is that we’ve all seen it happen–with a little mentoring.

Sidebar: THE “IT” FACTOR

A few years ago, Michigan State University involved its team captains in the selection of a new head coach for its football team. The captains developed criteria that they thought would capture what a head coach should be, and one of those was persona.

During a search, it’s easy to get caught up in tangible items like experience and education and overlook things like persona, which boils down to someone having “it.” But what does that really mean? When I look at a leader-coach, I see someone who:

• Commands respect when they walk into a room.
• Has the ability to relate to a variety of people and personalities.
• Makes those in their presence feel as if they are the most important people in the world.
• Is comfortable with him or herself and never tries to be who they are not.
• Motivates everyone to row in the same direction.
• Sets high expectations for those around them.
• Has a clear understanding of what it takes to be successful.

Sidebar: IN THE TRENCHES
What do coaches feel are the most important leadership skills in today’s athletics culture? We asked that question of Lou Cerro, Head Football Coach at Montour High School in McKees Rocks, Pa., who played football for article author Dan Cardone in the early 1980s. Shortly after being hired as Head Coach at Montour in January 2005, Cerro faced a unique leadership situation when NFL Hall of Famer Dick Butkus was installed as Head Coach of his Montour team as part of a reality TV show.

AM: What do you believe makes a coach a great leader?
Cerro: You need to treat your players with respect. If you respect them, then they’ll respect you. The first thing I tell my kids is that their coaches will never lie to them, and we will be with them through thick and thin. I’ve been doing this for 16 years, and I’ve found respect needs to go both ways.

You also need to be able to communicate with your athletes about a lot of different issues. I talk to our kids about their interests outside football, what they want to do after they graduate, and the things they do in their spare time.

How was your leadership tested by the TV show?
It was tested daily. Butkus was the head coach, and I had no say in the day-to-day practice routine. Our coaches had to change their philosophies and change their style to reflect Butkus’. The kids didn’t know how to handle that, so they came to me for direction, and I had to do the best I could to mesh the styles together.

We handled it by focusing on respect. All the coaches respected what we were trying to do and knew that the show and resulting publicity was going to help jump-start a program that had been struggling.

How did your leadership play a role in turning Butkus’ 1-7 team into the WPIAL Class AAA runner-up in just two years?
We stayed consistent. We didn’t change anything from week to week or year to year. We had mostly the same kids, and even though the TV show set us back a year, the kids started buying into everything we were trying to do as a staff.

What would you tell a coach who wants to develop good leadership skills?
Put your stamp on the program right away. You have to show everyone, from the players to the parents, that you’re in charge. Make sure they get on board with you and that no outside influences can ruin your program. At the same time, don’t be afraid to ask other coaches for suggestions. Sometimes you have to swallow your pride to make yourself and your team better.


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Working with Teachers: The Classroom is Part of Your Program

December 18, 2016 by

This article was provided by Coaches Network

By Dr. David Hoch, CMAA, CIC

When someone mentions communicating with classroom teachers, the first thing that probably comes to mind is grades. Are all of your student-athletes achieving as they should? Are they eligible to play?

Supporting your players’ academic work and checking on their progress is important, but did you realize that there are many other good reasons for coaches and teachers to communicate? Together, you and your players’ teachers can be a powerful team, ensuring the best for kids. Below are some scenarios where connecting with your classroom counterpart can benefit you, the teacher, and most importantly, your student-athletes.

An athlete is acting out. When a student-athlete is causing a disruption in class, his or her teacher may turn to you for help. As a coach, you often have a great deal of influence over your players. Simply taking the athlete aside and making a couple of comments after practice might do the trick. If the problem requires a little more intervention, discuss your expectations with the athlete and also listen to what he or she has to say. Keep the dialogue going and continue to touch base with the teacher.

There is trouble at home. Classroom teachers have about 50 minutes of contact with students each day, but as a coach, you probably have two or three times this amount. Because of this increased interaction, you may be the first to know about a difficult situation at home or a challenge in a player’s personal life that is affecting their behavior in the classroom. When this happens, you can reach out to your student-athletes’ teachers and alert them, allowing all the adults involved to support the student-athlete.

Missed work or tests. When an athlete needs extra help or tutoring, or needs to take a test he or she missed, you and the teacher can put your heads together to come up with a workable plan. While it is important for players to be involved in practices leading up to a game, it is more important that they first take care of their academic responsibilities. This means that you have to be understanding, supportive, and receptive in order to find a suitable solution.

Monitoring grades. And of course, you do want to stay in touch with teachers to monitor the academic progress of your athletes. You should encourage and support your players’ classroom efforts, but be careful. It is never okay to ask a teacher for special treatment of an athlete. This crosses a line from being concerned and involved to being inappropriate.

Making an effort to work more closely with your players’ teachers this year can pay dividends. Keep the following suggestions in mind for the most effective communication.

1. Prioritize academics. The first key to a great relationship with teachers is to understand and respect their role. Academics are the reason schools exist and students attend. Athletics are important, but academics hold the highest priority.

2. Remember your common goal. Both you and your players’ teachers want the same thing—a great outcome for the kids you work with. Make an effort to develop a two-way, open, polite, and sharing relationship, keeping in mind that you have the same end goal. You and the teachers of your players are teammates, and you can best accomplish the goal of helping students and athletes when you work together.

3. Think and plan ahead. As with most aspects of coaching (and teaching), this approach usually yields the best results. Waiting until the night before a player has an exam to explore ideas for extra help will have little value. Identify potential problems early and come up with solutions as soon as possible. And remember that all teachers and coaches are extremely busy, necessitating as much lead time as possible.

4. Student-athletes first. In the heat of a competitive season, it’s easy to start thinking wins and losses are the most important thing. They are not. When needed, remember to step back and ensure that you’re making decisions and plans based upon what is best for the student-athlete.

David Hoch retired in 2010 after a 41-year career as a high school athletic director and coach. In 2009, Dr. Hoch was honored as the Eastern District Athletic Director of the Year by the Nastional Association for Sport and Physical Education. He was also presented with the National Interscholastic Athletic Administrators Association Distinguished Service Award, and in 2000 he was named the Maryland State Athletic Director Association’s Athletic Director of the Year. Dr. Hoch has authored over 460 professional articles and made more than 70 presentations around the country.


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Infuse Your Team with Passion

December 12, 2016 by

Dr. Cory Dobbs, The Academy for Sport Leadership

Every team has players who always do less than they are asked; still others who will do what they are asked, but no more; and some who will do things without anyone asking. What every team needs is more of the third group, players who serve to inspire those around them to do things that will make the team better. These are the players who constantly renew their commitment to being their best for the team and whom others would do well to model.

A fun and energizing environment is much more productive than a routine and stale environment. Student-athletes who enjoy their sport and their teammates come to practice with moare energy—more passion. And this can be contagious.

To help lift your team’s performance look for ways to infuse your team with passion. Help teammates believe in themselves. Build their confidence and self-esteem. Search for ways to make your teammates feel important and appreciated. Celebrate and get excited about
the successes and accomplishments of your teammates. Make it a daily goal to point out the strengths and contributions of those around you.

You can infuse your team with passion by the acting out the following eight principles in your daily activities:

1. Keep Your Fire Burning. Fill your energy tank frequently. Your teammates feed off your fire. Avoid burn-out by regularly relaxing and refreshing your mindset.

2. Take Charge of Your Moods. Recognize your present mental and emotional state and take time to reflect on how your attitudes impact and influence your teammates.

3. Listen to Teammates. Spend time with your teammates and attempt to understand their feelings, perspectives, and experiences. Make it a way of life rather than a onetime event.

4. Be There for Others. Team building is about recognizing, respecting, and appreciating your teammates. Your friendship can be just the encouragement a teammate might need to make it through a challenging time. The smallest gesture, a simple act of kindness, at just the right time can make a big difference.

5. Act with Integrity. Blaming, finger-pointing, and accusing others will lead to negative reactions. Do what you say you will do. In other words, walk the talk. Your attitudes and actions should be consistent with your words.

6. Be Genuine. Your teammates will see right through you if you are phony and superficial. They want you to care about them and help them achieve their goals. Belief in your teammates will breed trust and healthy relationships. Point out others’ strengths and contributions—daily!

7. Refrain from Excuse-Making. Players that are committed to excellence identify what top-notch performance looks like and then take action steps towards that standard, never making excuses for disappointments and failures along the way.

8. Mend Broken Fences. Great teammates are those willing to admit mistakes. Durable and enduring relationships are built by pushing through adversity. Conflict is natural. Restore relationships where conflict has caused tension. Be patient, persistent, and pleasant when restoring a relationship.

To find out more about and order Sport Leadership Books authored by Dr. Dobbs including Coaching for Leadership, click this link: The Academy for Sport Leadership Books

About the Author

Dr. Cory Dobbs is an accomplished researcher of human experience–a relentless investigator always exploring “how things work.” He is the founder and president of The Academy for Sport Leadership and A Leader in Every Locker and has written extensively on leadership development of student-athletes.


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Change Your Coaching Staff Dynamic (in 20 minutes)

December 7, 2016 by

this article was written by Stephanie Zonars. You can follow her on Twitter @StephanieZonars

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A team can’t develop healthy team cohesion if the leadership team (i.e. coaching staff) isn’t cohesive. [Tweet That!]

Seems logical, yet somehow coaches believe they can still build a unified team despite distrust and other fractures among the staff.

Won’t happen. Can’t happen.

Patrick Lencioni’s The Advantage: Why Organizational Health Trumps Everything Else in Business reviews some of the key points of his other best seller, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team. 

Namely, that the core issue on dysfunctional teams is a lack of trust.

That’s so obvious that you’d think leadership teams and coaching staffs would be pretty good at building trust. Yet, more than often, they aren’t.

In The Advantage, Lencioni says it may be because they have a misunderstanding of the kind of trust needed on teams:

Many people think of trust in a predictive sense; if you can come to know how a person will behave in a given situation, you can trust her….The kind of trust that is necessary to build a great team is what I call vulnerability-based trust. This is what happens when members get to a point where they are completely comfortable being transparent, honest and naked with one another, where they say and genuinely mean things like “I screwed up,” “I need help,” “Your idea is better than mine,” “I wish I could learn to do that as well as you do,” and even, “I’m sorry.” (p.27)

I cannot tell you the number of times I’ve watched vulnerability completely change a team dynamic. One person willing to “go there” gives everyone else permission to open up a little more.

Compassion and empathy develops, resulting in a stronger ability to trust.

I worked with a business team on which many of the individuals had worked together for a number of years. It seemed like they knew one another well and genuinely liked one another. I was a little nervous that my trust-building exercises might fall flat.

What happened blew my mind!

During one of the exercises an individual shared a hardship she was going through. Her co-workers had no idea—even someone who had gone through something similar.

Through tears deeper connections developed that took their team to a new level of trust.

One 15-20 minute exercise Lencioni uses can give your team the opportunity to develop that kind of vulnerability-based trust.

At your next coaching staff meeting, have each person share three things*:

  • where they were born
  • how many siblings they have and where they fall in the order of children
  • the most interesting or difficult challenge they faced as a kid

This simple exercise helps individuals feel more comfortable being vulnerable in the group and develops a new level of understanding, admiration and respect.

Even if you are rolling your eyes right now, and think you know a lot about your staff team, give it a try. It never disappoints!

Then shoot me an email to let me know what happened.

 

*I recommend having the leader go first.

About Stephanie Zonars

Stephanie Zonars helps coaches build and maintain winning team cultures through her business, Life Beyond Sport. Teams at Penn State, Notre Dame, West Point and over 60 other schools have built stronger trust, communication and teamwork through her workshops. Stephanie spent three years on staff with the Penn State women’s basketball team, assisting the team to back-to-back Big Ten Championships. She’s also the author of three books.


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8 Coaching Mistakes

November 21, 2016 by

This article was provided by Coaches Network

Sports provide countless learning opportunities for athletes and coaches alike. Looking back on over two decades of coaching experience, John O’Sullivan realized that his close-minded approach kept him and his players from reaching their full potential. In order to help today’s coaches recognize the areas where they can improve, he provided a list of eight mistakes he made and what to learn from each in an article on changingthegameproject.com.

1. I Focused on Outcomes (Instead of Learning):
It’s easy for coaches to become wrapped up in results. Athletes are often critiqued based on the outcome of the game or match, and not on how well they actually performed. Instead, coaches should focus on opportunities to learn rather than win. Every practice and competition provides a chance for athletes to learn from mistakes and grow.

2. I Focused on Being Serious (Instead of Enjoyment):
When expectations for success are high, enjoying the moment can often become secondary. This becomes an important issue in sports because athletes are more likely to develop and stay engaged if they are enjoying themselves. Therefore, coaches should try to balance their approach. “Coaches can focus on enjoyment and be demanding at the same time,” O’Sullivan writes.

3. I Tried to Inspire by Demeaning (Instead of Being Demanding):
There is a fine line between being demanding and being demeaning. It may seem like pushing an athletes buttons with sarcasm or demeaning comments might motive them to perform. But this approach can actually do more harm than good. A successful coach will demand more out of athletes and inspire them to keep getting better, rather than trying to embarrass or humiliate them.

4. I Took Credit for the Good and Blamed Others for the Bad (Instead of the Opposite):
After a loss, coaches start assessing what went wrong. This is a potentially pivotal moment of self-reflection that makes teams and individual athletes better in the future. It is just as important for a coach to be self-critical as it is for an athlete. Though it might be easy to say poor effort, poor focus, and poor execution were the reasons for losing, a coach should consider their own role before blaming others. “When you blame an athlete for a mistake, he or she will likely blame another, and the blame cascades down until no one takes responsibility. But if you take ownership, your athletes will as well,” O’ Sullivan writes.

5. I Did Lots of Talking (Instead of Listening):
It’s only natural for coaches to do a lot of talking. From organizing, to providing instruction, to motivating athletes, there are a lot of reasons for coaches to be constantly talking. But people only improve when they listen. Young athletes need direction, but too much lecturing can cause them to lose interest. Instead of thinking you have all the answers, allow yourself to listen and learn from those around you.

6. I Acted Like a General (Instead of a Teacher):
Athletes are able to reach their full potential after they accept responsibility over their own development. When coaches are trying to control every situation by providing constant instruction, an athlete’s ability to grow is inhibited. Especially during competition, try to act as a guide and mentor by focusing on the learning process. When a coach acts like a general, things might run smoother in the moment but lessons will not be carried into the future.

7. I Used Fear as a Motivator (Instead of Love):
Threatening athletes with the prospect of sprints or a grueling may seem like enough to inspire a great performance, but there are better ways. When an athlete loves and respect their teammates and coaches, they’re much more likely to do all they can to make everyone successful. Building this type of culture should be a point of focus for any coach. “Nothing is more powerful than a bond of love and respect among teammates, coaches and parents working together. No team will fight harder than that team. No athlete will play harder for a coach then one who feels cared for and loved,” O’Sullivan writes.

8. I Knew it All (Instead of being Humble):
There is always more to learn. Coaches can often be stuck in their own philosophy and approach, but that type of stubbornness will hold you back more than propel you forward. Take advantage of the knowledge that other coaches have to offer, never stop asking questions, and don’t be afraid of change. “You can admit when you are wrong. Athletes will forgive you, and better yet, are far more likely to go all in for you and their team if they know mistakes are OK, because even the coach makes them,” O’Sullivan writes.

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